andromedalogic:

[mulder voice] that’s why they put the bi in fbi

Anonymous asked: Could you explain the whole "i don’t really have depression, i’m actually just a lazy piece of shit" = you've got depression, thing? It rang a bell for me and I'd like to know what you meant. Thanks :)

roachpatrol:

one of the most insidious things about depression is it doesn’t ‘feel’ like depression. even when you have it, you know you have it, you’ve been diagnosed—you still find yourself thinking, no, nope, this isn’t it, can’t be. it’s like the mental illness equivalent of that knight in monty python that keeps going ‘it’s a flesh wound! i’m fine, really! this is just a scratch, i’ll be up in a moment!’ even after all his limbs have been hacked off and he’s lying there helpless.

one of the most common narratives around it is that no one realizes they have depression until they start checking off what they consider to be normal aspects of their lives—and personal character flaws— against the checklist for depression symptoms. really key symptoms include:

  1. lack of motivation
  2. constant tiredness, even exhaustion
  3. finding no pleasure or satisfaction in activities they used to like, or that they know should feel good
  4. not seeing the point of doing anything
  5. increased and even unmanageable anxiety and fearfulness

any one of these symptoms drains away your ability to do work, cope with setbacks, overcome difficulties, or stop procrastinating. multiple symptoms create a pretty perfect storm of intertia and anxious self-loathing. you stop doing anything because it’s hard to get going, unpleasant while you’re at it, and afterwards there’s no reward. why bother, right? and when you’re always tired you get conservative of what little energy you can manage, and when you only feel emotions on the ‘empty to miserable’ spectrum you get really aversive to making mistakes. the whole mess very quickly and very insidiously loads every single thing in your life with toxic emotional baggage.   

and then someone says to you— or you say to yourself, ‘stop being lazy’. and that haunts you forever. because you’re lazy! the work is so easy. everyone else does it. everyone but you, you lazy asshole, lying around all day not doing this totally easy thing that you should be able to but aren’t. you don’t have depression! of course not. mental illness is for victims, is for blameless innocent people who can’t be blamed for being so understandably sick. but you can be blamed. you have a character flaw, and it’s getting worse by the minute. 

and that is how people who have been diagnosed, who have been medicated, who have been through therapy, can still spend all day hiding in bed and chewing themselves up over their failure to just somehow magically be a good, healthy, useful person, instead of treating themselves to a sick day and saying ‘yup! it’s depression. i need to be kind to myself.’

jobhaver:

secret government agent: tell me right now, do aliens smoke weed

mulder: [tied to a chair in a dark room] i wont ever tell you this

secret government agent: *punches mulder in the face* what kind of weed do aliens smoke

mulder: *spits blood on the agent*

secret government agent: where can i buy this dank ass space weed

mulder: fuck you

athosds:

night drive | a playlist for quiet nights | listen [x]

  #music   #mix

its thundering outside, i;m pumped

amethystbaeddel:

bi women pull shit against lesbians
lesbians pull shit against bi women

thats horizontal aggression

and when lesbians pull shit against bi women, it gets labeled “monosexual privilege”, attributing to lesbians an amount of social capital and structural privilege we just DO NOT HAVE in real life

but when bi women pull shit against lesbians, u dont see it being labeled “polysexual privilege” because that would imply a level of structural power that bi women dont have on that axis

if u wanna talk abt the shit that happens, theres already words that describe it w/o grouping lesbians on an equal footing w ppl who have power over us as well

bi/pan/polyphobia and bi/pan/polysexual erasure

glowcloud:

the-self-diagnosis:

polks:

Urbance is literally about forbidden hetero romance in a land where everyone is gay. evil gay overlords stoppin the hetero. the designs are gorgeous but be aware of what you’re potentially funding. Not saying funding it is that black and white either -it’s nice to see a cast that is primarily black, for instance, but every time Urbance info goes around I end up seeing people get disappointed when they learn the premise.

Congratulations folks, you completely missed the point. Literally your take away from that thing’s message is the exact opposite of what those people are trying to say. I have neither the time nor patience to explain this fully, so Ill leave behind a quote from a wonderful human that I believe sums up the proper interpretation of urbance quite nicely, even though the quote predates the show.

"If it is wrong to persecute heterosexuals in a homosexual society, then the reverse must be wrong as well." -Hugh Hefner

wonderful human hugh hefner

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